Love, Inevitable
- Mihir Sachdev

- May 10, 2020
- 2 min read
In these challenging times where people feel they are at a position of weakness, we can observe that one of the powerful individuals in this face of the earth is none other than A MOTHER.”Khana Khaya” being her tagline and always checking up on you there are obviously times when most of us feel that it is impossible to be so devoted to someone like the way your mother is to you. Times, when one learns to walk one leg at a time and credit ourselves for the same we somewhere forget the hands behind those steps, were her’s. Times where we snuggle under the blanket and hide under her hug to evade the after-effect of the horror movie we somewhere forget that the strength of positivity was hers.

It’s also essential to recognise the fact that A MOTHER who supports us in our goods and the bad most often do get lost in their motherhood.”Personal space” otherwise popularly known as “me time” seem to be trending these days. Research does prove that Gen Z teens find arguing and the same “personal space” their birthright and I personally agree that it’s important but space is clearly not more important than MOTHER. ‘What Women Want’ is definitely the slogan for the majority of the activists and the ultimate global message. Yet, during this lockdown, we witnessed a 100% surge in the domestic violence cases and marital rape does have separate stats altogether.
For over the last 4 decades or so India has been majorly patriarchal and establishing authority and dominance were most seen in households by the breadwinners of the house-The Men. We have definitely come a long way and we still have a long way to go. There are husbands who see their wife as just A HOUSE HELP, A LADY ONLY FOR NURTURING KIDS, A LADY FOR PERSONAL SATISFACTION AND SO ON. The fact that all these ideas were normalised and passed on from generation to generation is what becomes highly problematic. However, most marriages in India make women emotionally and financially dependent on men making it highly difficult for the women to take a call. This dilemma is often misused by society and people within the house. Divorce still continues to be a stigma amongst a vast majority in the country.

The change can be brought when one woman stands in favour of the other and both bring out their voices out in the open.”Pain is universal, suffering is optional”-Buddha
We all know that a WOMAN sheds blood, but still, they would have the same smile and care for us for those hard days, we need to understand the pain and provide them with as much support as possible. 20 bones breaking at the same time = to the pain during the birth-giving process. This pain is just temporary for her as she is able to see a future for her child and most importantly the nourishment she wants to provide. Amidst all of this suffering doesn’t stand a chance.

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY ALL MOTHERS AND GOING TO BE MOTHER, I PRAY YOU LIVE LONGER.





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